Children at Weddings: Tips & Ideas
If you’re only having a civil ceremony without a large celebration afterward, childcare won’t be necessary.
However, if you’re planning a bigger event, childcare is highly recommended so you can enjoy your special day without stress.
You can hire a babysitter or nanny — some couples ask a friend, although it’s best if this person is not a regular wedding guest. A budget-friendly option is hiring a trainee or someone who wants to earn a little extra.
There are also professional childcare providers experienced with events — slightly more costly, but they create a great atmosphere with activities and fun entertainment.
If you don’t want childcare throughout the entire day, make sure to inform parents in advance about when the childcare ends. This helps your guests plan accordingly.
Wedding games and entertainment help children avoid boredom — because bored kids quickly run to their parents.
Here are some ideas:
A Kid's Table
Great for children aged four to five.
Equip it with drawing materials, crafts, colouring pages — it keeps them busy for a while.
Outdoor Toys
Perfect for weddings held outside:
- Bobby cars
- Tricycles
- Small ride-on cars
Decorate them with flowers for cute photo moments!
Games
Bubbles, balls, jump ropes, giant games like Twister.
Perfect for energetic kids — just make sure there is an adult supervising.
Kid’s Menu
Not exactly an activity, but important:
Children’s dishes should be simple and stress-free — think pasta or schnitzel — to avoid food drama.
Tired kids quickly become cranky — to avoid stress, check early whether your venue has sleeping options.
If the kids are younger, a baby monitor is extremely helpful.
Blog article by Mathilda Louise von Mersi