Practice Before the Wedding!

A wedding like the ones we see in Hollywood films — the bride marrying her Brad Pitt lookalike in a grand castle, surrounded by people who magically know exactly what to do without ever rehearsing — simply does not exist in real life.

It all looks so effortless and perfectly choreographed, as if every snowflake lands exactly where it should. But reality? Very different.

There is no “1-2-3, go!”
Many things need to be practiced — your entrance, your dance, and even where to stand. Here are a few things you should definitely rehearse before the big day.


1. The Correct Finger
Imagine not knowing which finger to place the ring on during your ceremony — uncomfortable, right?
Practice this together a few days before the wedding.

Traditionally (in Germany and Austria):

  • the engagement ring is worn on the left ring finger,
  • the wedding ring is worn on the right ring finger.

Knowing this in advance avoids awkward fumbling during the ceremony.

2. The Wedding Vows
No one wants to hear:
“I forgot my text…”
— unless you're filming a romantic comedy.

You don’t need to memorise a three-page speech like in school.
A few heartfelt words promising your love are more than enough.

Typically, vows are spoken:

  • after the “I do”,
  • before the ring exchange,
  • or in some ceremonies, before the question of consent.

Ask your officiant or priest in advance when exactly the vows will be placed in the ceremony.

3. “You May Now Kiss the Bride”
A dream moment — but only if you’re prepared.

Without practice, many couples suddenly don’t know:

  • where to place their hands,
  • how to stand,
  • or how to create the moment they envisioned.

So:
Practice your kissing pose!
Try different versions, take photos or videos, and see what looks natural and beautiful.
It's fun — and it brings you closer as a couple.

4. Who Enters When, and From Where?
It’s important to plan the entrance choreography before the wedding:

  • Who walks in first?
  • From which side?
  • Who stands where?

This applies especially to the bride and the bridal party / witnesses.

Knowing the sequence keeps the ceremony smooth and elegant — just like you imagine it.

A beautiful wedding doesn’t happen by accident — it’s the result of planning, coordination, and a little practice. With these small rehearsals, you’ll feel more confident and calm when the big moment arrives.

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