Die ersten Schritte nach dem Heiratsantrag
Once the initial excitement settles and you’ve shared the news with family and friends, it’s time to take the first steps toward planning your wedding.
To help you get started, I’ve put together the key points you should consider early on.
Before booking anything, talk openly about your expectations and budget with your partner.
Ask yourselves:
- How many guests do we want to invite?
- Do we prefer a small, intimate wedding or a big celebration?
- What type of wedding are we dreaming of?
The number of guests and the general direction of your celebration will significantly influence your budget.
Would you like a summer wedding, a cosy autumn celebration, or a winter wedding?
Are there any dates that have special meaning to you?
It’s helpful to define several options rather than a single fixed date — venues and vendors book quickly.
Once you have set your budget and guest count range, you can start looking for a venue.
Considerations that help narrow down the choice:
- Indoor & outdoor possibilities
- Plan B options for bad weather
- Wedding location restrictions (music, end time, decorations)
- Accommodation for guests
- Travel logistics
Your location sets the mood and direction for the entire wedding — it is one of the most important decisions.
If you want a stress-free wedding and prefer to enjoy the engagement period instead of feeling overwhelmed, hiring a wedding planner is a fantastic choice.
A planner:
- guides you through the entire planning journey,
- recommends the best vendors,
- creates your design concept,
- and ensures a smooth wedding day.
Talk to a few planners and see who you connect with personally.
The chemistry must be right — you will spend many months planning together.
Once you’ve booked your venue and decided on your date, you can send your save-the-dates.
They are especially important if:
- you’re planning a destination wedding,
- many guests are traveling from abroad,
- or your wedding falls during peak season or holiday periods.
This time is magical — take it all in!
Plan wedding-free evenings, enjoy date nights, celebrate your love.
These months go by much faster than you think.