Wedding No-Gos for Couples

There are a few things couples should keep in mind to ensure their wedding day runs smoothly and pleasantly for everyone involved. Here are the most important no-gos for couples — and how to avoid them.

1. Not Allowing Plus-Ones
If it fits your budget and guest list, it’s always appreciated when guests are allowed to bring a plus-one.
This is especially important for guests who don’t know many people at your wedding.

If you do decide against plus-ones, communicate this clearly and kindly.

2. Stressing During the Getting Ready
Don’t let small delays or mishaps upset you during your getting ready. There are so many emotions involved — don’t let negative thoughts take over.

Take care of yourself:

  • stay hydrated
  • eat enough
  • keep the room organised
  • create a calm atmosphere

The morning sets the tone for the rest of your day.

3. A Case of the Munchies — Not Eating All Day
Many couples forget to eat enough throughout the day (nerves + excitement!).
This often leads to headaches, irritability, or exhaustion.

Make sure you eat:

  • breakfast
  • snacks during the day
  • and your actual wedding dinner

You’ll need the energy — especially if you want to party!

4. Skipping the Wedding Day Timeline
A clear timeline is essential so your vendors, guests, and bridal party know what’s happening when.

Your timeline should include:

  • vendor arrival times
  • ceremony start
  • cocktail hour
  • dinner
  • speeches
  • dances
  • cake
  • party

Without it, the day becomes chaotic — and you will feel the stress.

5. No Dress Code? Chaos!
A wedding without a dress code leads to confusion.

Many guests feel insecure:
“Is this too formal? Too casual?”

To avoid this:

  • choose a dress code that fits your style
  • communicate it clearly on your invitation or website

Guests will thank you for the clarity.

6. Vendor Meals Forgotten
Your vendors work for 8–12 hours on your wedding day.

Make sure they are provided with meals and water — especially:

  • photographer
  • videographer
  • planner
  • band/DJ
  • stylists (if on-site long-term)

Hungry vendors = unhappy vendors.

7. Forgetting to Enjoy the Moment
Sometimes couples get so caught up in schedule, photos, and guests that they forget to enjoy the magic of the moment.

Take intentional pauses during the day to:

  • breathe
  • look at each other
  • soak in the atmosphere

Your wedding day goes by incredibly fast — cherish it.

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